life in this world

Existence

2011-12-13T15:48:00.000-08:00

We have not yet understood nor can we state what the true purpose of our existence is in this lifetime. And even though there are so many individuals with compelling arguments, there are still questions which baffle them. And so a question or a thought that may arise from this could be. Should we invest more energy in this unachievable objective or should we focus on making value of the limited time we have left in this physical body?
This is a largely debated topic and my intention here is not to defend or support whether or not it is correct because I myself is still learning and have not receive that level of enlightenment nor wisdom that would allow me to say to you, the masses, that I know and have the answer.
My only argument to you would be to let your life be of some purpose while you’re alive in this physical form. Impart on to another something positive that will uplift their life and make them a better person. There are those that are far less fortunate than you and I but the majority of the time we bask ourselves in or own created sorrows thinking that no one else has problems except us.
Tomorrow as you waken to a new day, question not why the sky is blue but rather allow yourself to be thankful for the chance to be alive, the chance to feel and for the other senses that you have been given. Allow yourself to think of who you could help today. This, my friend will help to fulfill your purpose in this lifetime.

Loving Yourself

2007-06-02T22:14:00.001-07:00

Before you begin to seek affection from others learn to love yourself first, value yourself. It is possible that same person whom you loved will one day become bored and tired of your company and be gone from your life for good, then solitude will be your only companion.

Allowing yourself to be dependent on others for emotional support will indeed spell depression and added stress. Make it your duty to start taking care of yourself, treat yourself to something new. Let the crying time be over and the fun begin.

It is a wonderful feeling to know that there’s someone who loves you. This is great as we all need to be loved just don’t allow your entire life to be consumed by this feeling. We all have heard the lines,” Nothing last forever” and “A thin line between love and hate”

Gather to yourself positive affirming thoughts and see them to the end. You may even be surprised that all along you had these capabilities but for years have allowed someone else to be your umbrella. Wake up and take life head on. Let this be your moment, a moment in time where all things stand still. Take in the view. Isn’t it beautiful?

Start loving yourself today and enjoy a better life.

Overcoming Self

2007-06-02T12:00:00.000-07:00

There is a certain saying that goes “No one cares about you but yourself”. Going about thinking that everyone around you cares about your welfare is a bit callous. We are a generation that loves to use the “I” word, always thinking of “me”

I want this……………………

I am unhappy………………….

I don’t have enough of……………

Barely do we take time to help someone in need without looking for something in return. Hypocrites we are for pretending to be the opposite of who we really are. Greed will never end and change will never come about as long as the “I” personality keeps becoming the top priority on our agenda.

Has this “I” mentality occurred because of neglect .Did we not get enough love growing up? Only within lies all have the answers. This will to change will arise when we become aware of our true purpose in this life, thus allowing joy and peace to be the effects of helping others rather than it becoming a burden to us.

Start today by showing genuine love and kindness to someone in need. Overtime the feeling will become second nature. Transfer some of that “I” love. Remember no matter how much possessions we gather for ourselves one day it will be of no use to us.

Society's Privileged

2007-05-31T00:37:00.000-07:00

Only a selected few, sometimes referred to as the elite are privileged to indulge themselves in luxury.

The above statement is oftentimes times debated on by many with the idea that the rich should enjoy their riches to the fullest.

Many will argue that whatever luxury at their disposal is a result of hard work and dedication. It is only fair that an individual after toiling hard should at some point be able to indulge themselves without others acting negatively towards their lavish lifestyle.

The rich will forever remain as is and the same applies to the poor. Changes will only come about based on how we interact with our environment whether it be good or bad. Understanding and effectively interpreting day–to-day happenings and applying affirming thoughts will no doubt lead us on a path to success.

Grudging someone for wanting to become better will only prompt negativity. Instead let us elevate ourselves to a level that will enable us to also enjoy the luxuries of life.

Affirming your life

2007-05-29T14:14:00.000-07:00

Accomplishing a given task is a matter of choice for many of us, but what if we were to affirm our thoughts into achievable goals, wouldn’t that be great. Instead we have allowed ourselves to be bombarded by negative thought which in turn causes us to sink deeper and deeper into depression and worse case scenario even death.

We must allow ourselves to reach a point in life where positive affirmation becomes the root of our lives and be done away with all the negativity. Some of the effects of negative affirmation are depression, low self esteem, and self pity. Start today by telling yourself that you can:

Stop smoking

Lose weight

Can be strong

Be assertive

Succeed

Be honest

There are a lot more affirmations that you can take on, just start off slowly and overtime you will be amazed at home much you have achieved.

A step towards inner Peace

2007-05-29T13:13:00.001-07:00

Achieving inner peace in today’s chaotic world requires the effort and patient that a lot of no longer have. We have all been become corrupted by this egocentric society which only aim is to fulfill its SELF. Moving towards inner peace will require us to stop and take a glimpse of all that’s been going on around us and understanding right fro wrong. Warfare happens within and around us each and every day.

Take control of your thoughts, be calm,

Give a listening ear.

Don’t allow yourself to become prey to others ignorance.

Help those that are in need.

Always remember that none of us are here for eternity and whatever riches we have gathered, one day we will die and leave it all behind. So before we go let’s show everyone that we can make this world a better place than it is.

Technology's grip

2007-05-23T18:49:00.000-07:00

Spending a lot of time in front of the computer and neglecting our responsibilities to our spouses can lead to marital problems. With so much things to do online, times quickly passes by without us not even noticing it. Is it that we have come to find love and other forms of fulfillment and that loosing the company of a loved one seemingly to have no meaning anymore?
For those of us who are guilty its time that we start analyzing our lives and start prioritize. Yes, the internet does have its advantages and disadvantages. It is up to us to choose and do so wisely that it will not haunt us in the near future.
Technology’s appeal on us will forever be present. We must all find that control button within ourselves and tune it so that we can spend time online and also spend quality time with our loved ones.

Procrastination

2007-05-23T10:24:00.001-07:00

Do you get up each day with a whole lot of ideas and plans only to find that by the middle of the day you’re either sleeping or watching television? Many of fall prey to this foe called procrastination. Is it that our will power has become so damaged that the simplest of task become a burden and so we come up with excuses as to why a certain task is not worth doing and so we put it off for another day.

There is so much that we can all or solo achieve if we all plan and affirm our thoughts into accomplish tasks that we have put aside for so long now.

Tell us my friend, what is it that is holding you back?

Career Aspiration

2007-05-23T09:46:00.000-07:00

The pursuit of a career in today’s society is slowly diminishing as the vast majority of individuals are steering towards other means of a viable income.

We have been conditioned to think that having a bachelors or a master’s degree will ensure a long lasting employment at a well-known firm. However as these companies continue to cut cost by downsizing staff, career oriented individuals are left with their back against a wall.

Career development can take several years to reach its potential. Often within a company one has to prove to their superiors that they are capable of executing a task in a precise and efficient manner. Gone are the days when a piece of paper could just speak for itself. “Skill and experience is now the motto of the workforce. Overtime patience and the ability to learn may propel an individual to the level of promotion. However this is not guaranteed.

Enyoying life

2007-05-23T09:42:00.000-07:00

Life can be fun, people can be loving but no we all love to argue fuss and fight.Why?One thing's for sure we're always going to have disagreements as everyone thinks their opinion is better that another until a simple problem escalate into something far bigger than they can handle.

Looking at the world around you today you can see it all happening. Greed is going to be our downfall. We want more and more, we can never satisfy. If only we could stop for a moment and analyze our lives......but no.we want it all. All the riches. Remember that story in school when that man wanted everything he touched to be turned to gold. I guess you know how that story ends.

Enjoy the monement.Show kindnesss.Go to your grave knowing that you did the best you could while you were alive.

life in this world

2007-05-23T09:13:00.000-07:00

Daily I wonder what my purpose in this life is. I would say that compared to many other humans am really a good guy.”Good meaning what?” you may ask.

What is it that makes us good. Would I be considered a good person if everyday that I see you I offer you money, no I don’t think so. I do realize that there is still a lot more for me to learn, however for the short period that I have been on this earth it has become clear to me that the majority of us are always doing some deed with the hope of receiving something in return.

It might seem sad but that’s just the way the world works. Good and evil will forever be present, a constant battle to the very end.